Real Women. Real Struggles. Real Steps Forward.
Let's Figure
This Out Together
Sometimes understanding the problem isn't enough.
You need help figuring out what to actually do about it.
What is Let's Figure This Out Together?
I'm inviting women over 40 to join me for a free, one-on-one conversation where we'll work through one specific issue you're struggling with.We'll talk about what's happening, explore what may be keeping you stuck and work together to develop some practical steps you can begin taking to move forward.This isn't an interview and you don't need to prepare anything or have everything figured out beforehand.It's a real conversation between you and me.With your permission, portions of our conversation may be shared on my YouTube channel so other women can experiencing similar struggles can benefit too.
What can you expect?
Our conversation will last approximately 45 minutes.During our time together, we'll:
- Talk through the specific issue you're struggling with.
- Explore what may be contributing to it.
- Look at patterns or beliefs that could be affecting your decisions.
-Identify what you might begin doing differently.
-Put together a practical plan with steps you can start applying in your everyday life.My goal is for you to leave knowing where to begin, not just why you've been struggling.
YOU HAVE OPTIONSI understand that discussing personal experiences can feel uncomfortable, especially when they're related to relationships.That's why I'm offering three ways to participate.On-Camera ConversationYou and I have a recorded video conversation and you face and voice will appear in the finished episode.Voice-Only ConversationYou and I have a recorded video conversation and your only your voice will be in the finished episode.Written SubmissionYou submit a situation you'd like help figure out. With your permission, I discuss your situation in a video and share practical ideas for working through it.YOU'RE IN CONTROLYour comfort and safety come first.You can decline to answer questions, pause or stop the recording, request that portions be removed and review the finished video before deciding whether it can be published.Nothing will be published without your final written approval.
WHO IS THIS FOR?I'm looking for women over 40 who:- Are struggling with a specific issue involving relationships.- Want to better understand what's happening and begin making changes.- Are comfortable exploring their situation through an honest conversation.- Are not currently involved in active divorce or family court proceedings.- Are not in a situation where sharing their experiences could create legal or personal safety concerns.IMPORTANT:If you're currently going through a divorce, custody dispute, high-conflict separation or an unsafe relationship situation, this public series would not be an appropriate place to discuss your experiences, even anonymously.
A Little About MeHi, I'm Lisa Tickel.After my divorce, I kept ending up with the same kind of man, so I did the work to understand why.Now I help women over 40 recognize unhealthy relationship patterns, understand themselves better and begin making different choices.I know how frustrating it can be to recognize something needs to change and still have no idea how to change it.That's what I want us to work through together.PLEASE NOTE: I'm not a therapist and these conversations are not therapy or mental health treatment.
Interested in Being Part of Let's Figure This Out Together?If you have something you'd like us to work through together, I'd love to hear from you.The first step is a short interest form. I'll review your responses and contact you if your situation appears to be a good fit.You won't be asked to sign the full Participation Agreement unless you're invited to take part.You don't have to have everything figured out. That's why we're having the conversation.